The mother of a medically complex 14-year-old speaks to how the medical system can make caregivers feel as though the only correct answer is to say ‘yes’ to an intervention when in reality, saying ‘no’ might be what is best for that child and family. She shares that hearing the story of another family who looked like her and made the decision not to trach their child, meant so much to her when she was making the same decision for her son.